Sex & Relationships

Are you in a relationship or cheerfully single? Are you having sex with men, or women? Or both? Or neither? Are you enjoying the kind of sex you're having, or do you wish things could be a bit different? Are you happy not having sex at all at the moment?

The thing about sex and relationships is that everyone is different and the important thing is that you're happy with the choices you're making. Nobody has the right to force you to do anything and you need to develop the skills and confidence to make sure that you are only having the kind of sex you want, when you want it and that doesn't harm you or your partner.

This section is all about exploring some of those things. Looking at the kind of relationships we might have (the good, the bad and the really ugly) and the kind of sex we might have, whoever we are. Have a look around, and if you need to talk anything through, contact Ask Brook on 0808 802 1234. Your call will be confidential. That means we won't tell anyone about it.

At Brook, we want you to be able to enjoy your sexuality without harm. That means never being pressured into sex when you don't want it, it means chosing to have sex that you enjoy or chosing not to have sex at all. The important thing is that you and your partner are safe, happy, and having fun.


 

  • Relationships

    Relationships can be full of fun, romance, excitement and intense feelings, but they can also be painful, confusing and infuriating! All relationships are different - find out more about them here.More...

  • Sex

    Having sex should be fun! Whether it's your first time or your hundred-and-first time, we hope that sex is something you feel good about. Find out more here.More...

  • Harmful situations

    Although usually our experience of sex and relationships will be good, it is possible to get into real trouble. Understanding what situations could be dangerous or harmful will help you make sure you stay safeMore...

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