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Good Sex project videos

The Good Sex project has worked with young volunteers and young actors to create a series of films about young people’s experiences and thoughts on having sex for the first time.

Each film tells one young person’s story and is based on original research interviews carried out with young people aged 16-22. The creative direction of the films was shaped by a participatory film-making project involving Megan Pickering, Rebecca Pearson, Carlos da Silva, Susi Arnott and Ester McGeeney. To find out more about how the films were made read our post on experiments in reanimating data.

All stories are performed by actors and all names are pseudonyms chosen by the original interview participants.

Indiah's story

In this film Rebecca Pearson reads a short extract from an interview with a 17 year old young woman called ‘Indiah.’ Although her first sexual experience was ‘rubbish’, Indiah describes having very pleasurable experiences with both men and women in later relationships.

Tommy's story

In this film Carlos da Silva reads extracts from an interview with 16 year old ‘Tommy’. In these extracts Tommy talks about his first ‘rushed’ sexual experience and the ways in which sex is becoming more relaxed and enjoyable over time.

​Michael's story

Seventeen year old Michael has not yet had sex, although he has had some sexual experiences with his ex-girlfriend. In this film ‘Michael’ talks about his fears about pregnancy, STIs and abortion and his decision to wait before he starts having penetrative sex. Read by Montel Britton.

​Vinnie's story

Nineteen year old Vinnie describes her first sexual experiences with a guy she was ‘linking’ with a few years ago. For ‘Vinnie’ the experience was uncomfortable and painful. Although you don’t see this in the film, later in her interview Vinnie talked to the researcher about how sex improved over time as she became more experienced and comfortable with her partners and her own body. Read by Tania Gasa.

​Oscar's story

Oscar is 17 years old and in a happy long term relationship with a girl he says he wants to be with for the rest of his life. In this film ‘Oscar’ talks about his first sexual experience several years ago in which the condom split and his sexual partner became pregnant. Read by Dajay Brown.

​Stephano's story

Sixteen year old Stephano has had sex twice in his life. In this film ‘Stephano’ describes these two experiences with a guy he met through a friend and reflects how his attitude towards sex has changed over the past few years. Read by Daniel Harris.

​Chanelle's story

Twenty year old Chanelle’s first experience was traumatic and upsetting. This film describes an abusive sexual experience when ‘Chanelle’ was 10 years old. This film contains a trigger warning as you may find it upsetting. Read by Emily Firminger.

​Jessica's story

Seventeen year old Jessica does not want to be in a relationship or have sex at this stage in her life. In this film ‘Jessica’ talks about the pressure she feels from her friends, her feelings of desire and the reasons why she wants to wait until she is older before getting into a relationship. Read by Aimee Cullen.

​James's story

Nineteen year old James’s first experience took place in an unusual location and was both exciting and uncomfortable. Although you don’t see this in the film, later in the interview ‘James’ went on to describe having enjoyable and exciting sexual experiences with men and women as he became more sexually experienced and confident over time. Read by Bony N’dri.

​Sarah's story

Sarah is 22 years old and has recently separated from her husband who she was in a relationship with for seven years. In this film ‘Sarah’ reflects on her first sexual experiences with her now ex-husband and her confusion about whether or not she had ‘popped her cherry’. To read more about myths surrounding virginity and ‘popping cherries’ you can download the vagina corona leaflet made by the RFSU.

​Kat's story

Kat is a 19 year old young woman who has had three sexual relationships. In this film ‘Kat’ talks about her first sexual experiences which were painful and unwanted. Later in the interview she describes how she came to enjoy sex with her first and second partners and the difficulties she is having negotiating good sex with her current boyfriend. Read by Ashlee Campbell.

If you have any thoughts or comments on these films or have an experience that you would like to share please get in touch participation@brook.org.uk. Thanks for watching.