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In this blog, Kelly Harris, Brook’s Head of Participation, explains how to ensure pupil voice is at the heart of relationships and sex/sexuality education (RSE).
There’s often a gap between what young people say they need to learn in RSE and the lessons they receive in schools. The most effective way of bridging this gap is through pupil voice.
Pupil voice is central to all our work at Brook and has been for decades. In celebration of Brook’s 60th anniversary this year, it feels like the perfect time to use this expertise to support you to embed pupil voice in your RSE delivery.
Pupil voice is underpinned by Article 12 in the United Nation’s Convention on the Rights of the Child (UNCRC), which states that children and young people should be given the opportunity to have a say in decisions being made about their lives.
By empowering young people to share their RSE needs and shape the education they receive, we can foster a more engaging and meaningful learning environment that supports the development of confident, informed young people.
Involving pupil participation in RSE can feel more daunting than other subjects because it’s not just a ‘classroom subject’: Each young person will have different life experience, values, culture and knowledge that will influence their unique approach to sex and relationships.
But don’t let the sensitive nature of RSE be a barrier to engaging with young people. To help, here are some steps you can take to provide opportunities for effective pupil participation.
As young people are rarely involved in the planning, delivery or feedback process of their education, they may be confused as to why they are being asked for their opinions about RSE.
So before you start the process of involving their voices, it is important to be clear about your rationale for involving them by considering these questions:
Being clear about these questions means you can plan ahead and ensure that you are providing meaningful opportunities for pupil voice.
It may not be easy to engage young people about their RSE. You might be met with different reactions including refusing to participate, embarrassment, nervousness, anger/frustration, tearfulness, curiosity/interest, or giggling/silliness.
To help with this, make sure you’re using supportive and inclusive messaging, be patient, avoid jargon, provide lots of reassurance, don’t assume knowledge or understanding and provide praise and encouragement.
It’s important to provide young people with safe, non-judgemental spaces, so they feel comfortable to share their thoughts. This safe space is crucial to identifying emerging trends that they are currently experiencing, such as misogynistic behaviour, which your RSE lessons can then help address.
Learn more about creating a safe space with Brook’s training session
Pupil voice isn’t just about what topics are covered in lessons, it’s also about how young people want to learn and how they enjoy learning. You might want to find out whether they prefer presentations, interactive games, research activities or group discussions. And this may influence which method you choose to involve pupil voice. Here are some examples:
Lesson evaluations are another way for pupils to shape their RSE by collecting qualitative feedback after each lesson.
Pupil voice questionnaires need to be a safe space for young people to contribute, so it’s best if they’re anonymous. If you’re working with a group over a long period of time you could use distance-travelled methods to track how their confidence and understanding has changed over time.
Make sure you feed back on both the outcomes, and impact, of young people’s contributions to RSE development. This could include a ‘You Said, We Did’ feedback form, a verbal update, showcasing any new lesson/workshop resources, and promoting any future opportunities where they can get involved.
Undertaking a ‘lessons learnt’ activity is also good practice as you can ask young people what they might have done/would like to do differently in the future.
Want to learn more?
Read our blogs from young people about their RSE, enrol in our free online course about pupil voice and take a look at our training sessions.
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